
This morning I went to yoga. It is by the pavilion looking out over the lake. It was 7 am, and the sun was rising and there was a fine mist over the lake. Fishermen had started to make their way out, silently rowing by. The resort was not awake yet. I was early to yoga of course, and waited until the other students and teacher arrived. There was myself, about 8 British tourists and 1 Indian teacher. There were cotton padded fabric mats on the tile floor of the pavilion. I sat in half lotus and heard one of the other students say- oh look she looks like she is good! Competition- even halfway around the world! We began in a short meditation and then some chanting. Then we practiced. Gentle stretches, like the joint strengthening series we sometimes do, and then shavasana. Pranayama, and then shavasana. More pranayama, shavasana. Twists, shavasana. Supine (reclining) poses shavasana. This lasted about an hour with a final ending of -you guessed it, shavasana. Larry came to take quietly take pictures, but could not figure out why I was lying down that much! There were only 1 or 2 pictures of yoga and many of one bird that caught his attention instead. It was a nice experience, just not what I am used to. I could not stop giggling to myself!
After a last dip in the pool and a wonderful outdoor shower, we had breakfast, scurried around to pack and be picked up in time for our `date with the houseboat in Alleppy, 2 hours away.
I know I describe our driver as a crazy driver, but I should put that in perspective. He has taken very good care of us, and I have felt very safe in his capable hands. Biju is wonderful! When the travel agent told us we had a car and a driver for the entire trip from Cochin Airport, down to Kumarakom and back, I thought it was a little much. But here in India, I was counting my blessings every time he drove us. The drivers have a small bag for themselves, and they wait for you wherever you go. It is customary for him to sleep in the car (I was horrified at first, but he seemed quite used to the arrangement) and he magically appeared whenever we needed him. If I had to switch drivers and taxis every time we moved, it would have been a much more arduous and cumbersome journey. He was translator, protector and tour guide all rolled into one.
Moving right along, as we drove from Kumarakom to Alleppy, the landscape again changed from rural areas to small towns to one big congested town. Temples, churches, stores, hotels, people, cars, motorbikes, bicycles, more people everywhere! It was a long, bumpy, congested 2 hour drive. India seems to be either very quiet or very loud. Right after we passed a rice plantation, we turned off the road and made our way under a bridge to the side of the backwaters. We thought surely we must have been mistaken about Biju, and sadly, this was the end of the road. It was funny too, because I had a weird feeling that something was not right. We got out of the car, and felt better as we walked around the corner and saw a fleet of houseboats waiting to pick up their passengers. The houseboats are boats that were used to carry rice on the backwaters and have been retrofitted to have a bedroom (some have 3 bedrooms), a kitchen, room for the crew, and a sitting room that is covered, but open air that includes a dining area. We opted for a one night stay and were to board at 12 and be delivered back to the dock at 9 the next morning. After presenting our travel voucher, I knew my intuition was correct when Biju, the owner of the establishment and a few of his employees began talking rapidly in Indian and gesturing to the log book. It seemed that our houseboat had traveled to the resort to pick us up, and at that very moment was waiting for us in Kumarakom! Major bummer!
After much discussion of waiting for it to cruise back, (not a great idea, it was hot and 2 hours to wait seemed an eternity) or drive back to meet it at the resort. (not great either). Finally, after spotting a small speedboat, we inquired as to whether they would take us by boat to board the houseboat! I have to say, I had some qualms. That boat was very small, and because of my enthusiastic shopping trips our luggage would probably sink it! We decided to leave some luggage with Biju, and with no small trepidation found ourselves ensconced in the small boat with luggage piled around us and took off to find our houseboat. I looked back at the shore and waved to Biju, who had a huge smile on his face and was laughing along with the others- my expression must have looked terrified to say the least! Thankfully, that little boat sped us to our destination, actually missing it by bout 2 kilometers, and had to turn around.
When we found it we made a mid-lake transfer, much to the curious stares of the other people on their houseboats who must have wondered how on earth we managed to do this! Several tourists even took pictures of us as we sped by. Greeted by the crew, the captain, first mate and chef, we finally sat in the 2 chairs and started to cruise down the backwaters. I honestly felt like a queen- my very own houseboat and crew. The trip was magical. Away from the chaotic town and the heat, a breeze moved through the cabin. The boat is very long, about 60-70 feet long. The hull is a thick wood construction. The cabin frame is finished with a combination of woven rattan an polished wood accents. It reminded me of a cocoon, with a comfortable nest inside. The stern has the dining and viewing space, with 2 comfortable wicker chairs and pillows to prop you up. The bedroom is air conditioned, with an attached bathroom. Then the full kitchen allows the chef to prepare delicious meals for you.
The backwaters are manmade and were created to flood the rice fields behind them. It reminded me of the canals in Bucks County with the tow paths, only much wider, wide enough for a house and a garden. So there are the rice paddies, a strip of land where the houses are built, and then the backwaters. It is like Venice, Italy- the only way to reach your house is by water, and their is a path winding the whole way down the water. There are stone steps from the water to each house. You will find the women washing dishes and clothes there, the sound of them slapping the fabrics on the stones. They even bathe there, and we saw many of the women washing their long, beautiful dark hair. They go into the water fully clothed. In the beginning I felt a little intrusive taking pictures, but it did not seem to bother them at all. I though how funny it must seem to them that people want to take their pictures doing their dishes and their wash, and had a funny thought of them coming to Bucks county and photographing me as I stood next
to the washing machine or loaded the dishwasher! They were very tolerant. The houses are simple but beautiful. I could not imagine living this life every day, the temperature balmy and simple. I am sure there are times they are not happy, but it seemed so peaceful and enticing. Every so often I would see an abandoned house with vines and flowers growing up around it, and old iron gate and gardens waiting to be tended. I imagined moving into one, and taking my place on the banks, washing my clothes there, and walking along the path with my market purchases on my head! It was tempting! There are several stone docks- ferry and water taxi stands to take people places. The other thing I noticed were all the birds. The most common is a slender white egret, standing in the water fishing. There are lots of varieties of Kingfishers, one being an amazing shade of blue with an orange-brown head. The kingfisher has been used as the name of an airline and a delicious beer in India. There are black ducks that find a twig growing from the water and stand on it, and many crows squawking away. We cruised for several hours, were served a delicious lunch of fresh vegetables, a whole fish caught that morning in the lake, cooked with spices, and kerala rice that resembles risotto. The grains of this are fat and nutty. The captain would point out different birds and answer our questions, but for the most part we moved in blissful silence, the crows and sounds of the people occasionally wafting our way, the gentle thumping of the boats engine.
A few hours later we rendezvoused with a wooden longboat, disembarked and went into one of the more narrow waterways on the side of the main backwater. There were several schools right before this, and the school day was done. There were grandmothers patiently waiting for their grandchildren, and two boys caught my attention as they ran down the paths next to the water on their way home. You could tell they were used to the attention and showed off their running speed, laughing and racing each other, their school uniforms on, backpacks on their backs. The houses were very close to the water, and we saw the women up even closer the before. The chickens would stand on the edge of the canals, and there were
more baby goats, dogs and an occasional cat.
Children were everywhere, waving back to us and smiling shyly when we took their pictures. We finally went back to the boat, and were taken to buy our dinner at
the fish market. Huge prawns, to be later cooked by the chef. Next stop was the place we would dock for the night, as well as watch the sun go down. We sat by the edge of the water as it gently rocked the boat. There were several houseboats docked here, and as we watched the sunset, the crew met up with other crews from the boats and played a lively game of volleyball in a nearby field. Click to listen to the music from the cruise. 
It was bittersweet to awaken the next morning, we knew it had been our last night in India. We started our cruise back to the houseboat dock and I began to understand why people stay for so long. We only saw a fraction of what India has to offer. I know I only got a taste of this beautiful country. I also knew in this limited time that I wanted to connect with the wild parts- to see the forests and jungles, the native animals, and to stand in the quiet spaces. I felt I made good choices with the time that I had. I also was honored to experience people of India-the huge populations of the cities, the slower paced people in the backwaters.. The contrasts are amazing. The dress as well as the dialect changes as you move from state to state. The homeless lie in the streets as the world moves around them. I would have liked to know all of their stories and I know there are things happening there that we cannot even imagine. I also wonder what the Indian women’s lives are really like. We take our freedom for granted as women here in the US. There were several times I was treated as though I was not there, and I felt a difference in the status between men and women. We stepped off the boat.
Biju was waiting, and we started our last day in India.